KY Intimacy Experiment Day 5

Day 5: Fun and Games


I learned on day 4 that too much comfort is a bad thing for relationships. But the main thing that we learned from day 5 activities is that being secure in our relationship can also be a benefit. If you are secure in your relationship, then you will be more than likely up to trying new things and not feel embarrassed.

Novelty can help boost a couple's relationship. Nonsexual activities can help couples enjoy higher quality relationships.

Day activity:
Choose an activity that you've never done together before. I was very excited about this! We went out and shot pool together. We had never done this before and we use to play pool when we was younger and loved it so I knew we would have fun.

The night activity was jammed packed with fun! We got to play a card game. All we needed was deck of cards, a pack of blank index cards, and two pens.

Then you take the stack of blank index cards and split them between yourself and your partner. Then take your pile and again split it in two. On half of your index cards write down the most sensitive body parts and hot spots. For example, your right breast, the hollow of your neck...On the other half, write down a method of touch that makes you weak. For example, a closed mouth kiss, or a firm rub. When you are both done, put all your cards together in the center of the coffee table, with the body parts in one pile, and the methods of touch in the other.

Then, you start playing some poker. The winner will choose a card from the top of the body part pile and a card from the method of touch. The loser has to do what the winner chooses!

I must admit it was A LOT of fun.